Tickling and being tickled is something I imagine we’ve all experienced in our lives. When we begin exploring our sexuality, however, we might find a whole new way of experiencing it: as a kinky pleasure during sexy times.
The clever folks over at Simply Pleasure tell us that there’s an actual name for this kink: Knismolagnia. I had never heard the term before and I certainly don’t know how to pronounce it. But I do know that more people enjoy this fetish than you might think.
Erotic Tickling In Person
Do you enjoy erotic tickling? If so, what parts of your body are the most sensitive? Of course, these places of sensitivity can change from session to session or even throughout the session. However, most people find that their underarms and feet are the most reliable spots.
Make Sure You Stay Safe
As with any kink play, it’s crucial to build safety guidelines into the session. Here are three essential ones:
- make sure that both parties understand that breaks need to be taken regularly so the submissive can catch their breath and get enough oxygen back into their body
- make sure that the submissive has a safe word that the Dominant knows
- the submissive needs to be sure that they can trust the Dominant to heed the safe word and to provide them with breaks
Enjoying This Kink During Phone Sex
I have callers who love to be tickled but who aren’t sure they are going to be able to experience it during a phone sex session. After all, it’s impossible to tickle yourself. However, it’s possible!
Option #1: Unaided Imagination
The first method my callers use is perhaps the most common one: we harness the power of their imagination. This may involve them telling me about a time when they experienced tickling with another person or a group of people. This memory, or even a fantasy, can be enough to get them very worked up.
They may begin at the beginning of the encounter, when a Dominant first takes control of them. Then, the more detailed the scenario, the more aroused they may become. Once they get close to cumming, I might help them over the edge by using trigger words and phrases such as “Tickle, tickle” or “I’m going to get you!”
I have also had callers who simply needed to hear these and other trigger words repeated over and over in different combinations to explode in a rush of sticky cum.
Option #2: Imagination Given A Boost
A second way to enjoy this fetish during phone sex is to take part in it during a trance session. I am a trained trance professional and it is my all-time favourite way to play with my callers. They can reach depths of erotic pleasure in trance they had previously only dreamed of, and this enhanced imagination technique works especially well for a tickling fetish.
I remember the first caller I ever had who asked for this kink ahead of the trance session. Armed with that request and the roleplay scenario he outlined, we began, and very shortly, as I took him through the scenario and used the words and phrases that indicated he was being tickled, he began to laugh uncontrollably and to beg for mercy. We went through the scene (with suitable breathing breaks) and he got more and more aroused (while still laughing hysterically). Finally, when I knew he had had enough, I stopped and allowed him to cum, which he did, explosively.
It’s safe to say that I very much enjoyed this session. Having a caller so completely submissive is catnip to a Dominant.
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Are you a fan of erotic tickle play? Tell me all about it in the comments.
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Thanks for reading, and until next time, stay safe and stay sexy!
Mistress Sascha, Kink Blogger
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