Sploshing is a type of sexy play that you might like to consider trying.  It’s also known as gunge, wetandmessy, or wam.  Haven’t heard of it?  Read on!

What Is Sploshing?

Once you get anything wet (usually but not always food) involved in your sexy times, you’re sploshing.  Maybe you’re already doing it in a low key way.  You might be dribbling something on your lover’s body (or your own!) to lick off–honey, for example.  Think of all the sensual fun that you can have by running your tongue through the sticky sweetness and then moving on to another part.  Yum!

Maybe too you’d like to ramp it up a bit and get a little rowdy.  You can take something nice and squishy and smear it all over yourself or your partner. Some common items include pies or custard puddings.  You don’t have to stick to sweet things, although goodness knows I’d understand why you would.  Some people even enjoy smearing oil all over their partner’s body.

So far I’ve only mentioned food, because that’s the most common item involved.  Aside from food, though, some people like to use mud.  Plus, for sheer volume, you can’t beat water from a hose.  But there’s something about food that really does the trick.  Maybe it’s because it’s so much fun to lick it off after all that smashing and rubbing it in!

If you already include food in your play, does a particular food do it for you?  Does the shape of a banana going into your mouth make you think about giving a blow job?  Or do you get hard when you feel a meat pie rubbing up and down against your belly?  You might even like to roll around in a massive amount of macaroni and cheese (in a tub or on a waterproof tarp so no surface is ruined, of course!)?

Sploshing Combined With Other Kinks

Of course, a great bonus with this kink is that it can provide more satisfaction than just the pleasure of the physical sensations.  Do you like humiliation?  This kink is ready-made for that.  Many partners will be laughing at you after they’ve thrown a pie in your face.

Or do you like to roleplay?  Maybe there’s a backstory that you can include that starts out slowly and then ends with meatloaf being smashed into your chest or a pudding being crammed down your sweats.

Do you like to edge? Think about the slow tease of a hand coated with banana cream pie sliding down to your cock and then having that hand start to move up and down soooo slowly . .  . teasing you.  Over and over. 

There are so many options with this kink that I can’t even begin to list them here.  All I can do is encourage you to try it out.  You might discover it’s your newest favourite thing!

Things To Consider

Of course, as with any kink, if you’re playing with a partner, please make sure you discuss boundaries in advance.  You and your partner both need to feel safe, so you need to make sure that they are comfortable using food in the way you are thinking of.. 

Additionally, make sure you check for allergies!  If you or your partner have nut allergies, for example, things could go from sexy times to Epipen very quickly.

Final Thoughts

So are you feeling a little spicy and wicked?  Grab some honey or whipped cream to get started, and bring on the fun with your play partner, yourself, or one of our lovely Mistresses here at LDW.  If you’d like to hear me talk about this, click here to listen to my audio!

If you would like to know my approach to any session, check out my profile of myself as a Mistress.  Feel free to get in touch if you have any questions.

Thanks for reading!  Until next time, stay sexy and stay safe.

Mistress Sascha, Kink Blogger