As any practitioner of BDSM will tell you, the relationship between arousal and fear can take you to some pretty dark places. While some prefer the endorphin rush of a slow steady build, some enjoy the adrenaline rush a terrified mental state brings. Blood rushing, heart pounding in your ears, waiting, wondering what’s coming next. The fight or flight response is part of our animal brain and reaches deep into the primal layers of our psyche. Fear play, it’s called… some get it from watching horror movies, some get it from feeling helpless with their personal doubts and fears used against them.
In such phone sex scenarios, clear boundaries and limits must be put into place. Fear play is considered a type of edge play, pushing the limits of what the submissive wants into the territory of what he “doesn’t” want, not consciously. But underneath, the excitement of being pushed into uncharted waters overcomes the anxiety. A femdom Mistress might push her male submissive toward the type of mindfuck that leaves him breathless and ready to explore deeper.
What do you fear most? Do those fears blind you or excite you? Does the idea of facing your worst fears of pain, humiliation or abandonment arouse you or leave you cold? A skilled domina works with her submissive to expose and exploit those dark desires. She uncovers those unexplored sexual fantasies and picks through them, separating those that damage the soul and those that make it soar.
We’re always being told that facing our fears frees us… so what do you think? I’d love to share a special erotic phone sex session with you where we explore your deepest fears and fantasies. Let’s play with what you fear the most… I adore an adrenaline junkie.
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