Sexual Triggers: What REALLY Turns You On... and Why?

I’m often asked by my strokers and submissives when I realized I was a dominant woman. Honestly? I can’t remember a time when I was NOT dominant. I’m a very direct woman, flirtatious certainly, but never shy about expressing my true motivations. I always knew there was something wrong with the women who thought that all of us should yearn for a husband, home and children. I never wanted those things… well, a home, certainly, lol. But the rest? Ah, with husband and children underfoot it seemed a home would become more of a prison. So my inner Dominatrix knew very early on that life as a submissive woman was NOT for me. Finding my own way wasn’t exactly easy, but through an honest assessment I knew that being on top was my true desire.

Not every erotic fantasy I indulge in puts me in that position of power, I’ll own that. But underneath it all, power is what excites me. The give and take of a bdsm relationship where a man puts his own needs below that of his femdom Mistress opens many doors that a more vanilla woman would never open. It excites me to be clothed in a room full of naked men. CFNM humiliation fantasies and scenarios always made me very wet. Seeing a male spanked, humiliated and used is another trigger of mine. Stripping that natural power their penis supposedly gives them shifts the dynamic considerably and gives them the freedom to experience sex from a subservient position.  So not only do I get to experience what turns me on, I get the thrill of subverting the dominant paradigm.

So now that you know a bit more about what arouses me? I want to know what turns you on… what triggers those deep seated erotic fantasies in you? What kinds of phone sex calls arouse you and stroke that inner fire? In other words… what’s your fetish fuel? And what amps that fetish fuel up to high octane, adrenaline pumping orgasmic pleasure? I’d love to explore those dark desires with you in depth. Allow me to dig around in your psyche and see just what the two of us can uncover. Perhaps you’ll feel less guilty about the nature of your desire… and get a glorious explosion to boot… or not, lol. But at the end of it all, you’ll have the satisfaction of sharing that part of yourself you hide from those around you. And what could be more arousing than the freedom to be yourself?

Ms Lauren ~ Femdom Mistress

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